Life change can be super scary. I’m not going to kid you and try to convince you otherwise. I think that’s why we’re often so resistant to change, because it requires a leap of faith. It leaves us in an uncomfortable place called vulnerability. Change takes guts, sometimes just to recognize and then profess that we need to change, and to take the resultant, formidable action. Yikes.
“Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway.” John Wayne
Well said Duke, on the courage to change, or saddling up in the spirit of doing good.
How do we know when it’s time for a change?
- Whenever we yearn for the future or escape by daydreaming about memories. I know what you’re thinking… it is good to be excited about the future, and to have fond memories – we’re in the same boat on that one. However, if we’re not living for the here and now, we’re missing something. There’s a disconnect for some reason. Figure it out, and give it a twist – just saying…
- When the daily routine seems like we’re just going through the motions. Life becomes stale and stagnant. We’ve essentially stopped growing at this point. The routine is drab. This is as draining as being stuck in hypothetical paralysis. Dude, it’s time to lively up yourself.
- If you find yourself avoiding the truth. You could just be lying to yourself or to other people as well. The truth is foundational to change and growth. Remember, where there is truth there is freedom.
“Being true to yourself means living in truth with each person in your life. It means refusing to say or do something that you donâ€™t believe is right. Living in truth with other people means that you refuse to stay in any situation where you are unhappy with the behavior of another person. You refuse to tolerate it. You refuse to compromise.”
â€” Brian Tracy
Time for a cool change?
Something or someone got you down… but you’re beginning to see the light?
Remember, there may be some resistance or hesitation… so you may need some help.
Strap on the armor brother and join the enlightenment found in the Word of God!! Memorize some “it is written’s” to carry with you throughout the day, and lock down some friends of the faith as prayer warriors. They’ll also be there like a rock to help you move forward. If there is anything ailing you that you need to give up to the Lord, jettison it. You have a choice to make and the choice should be to be happy.
Change is good. It happens. Embrace it for all the goodness this world has to offer.
How do you recognize the need to make change in your life? Do you have a close circle of friend who you can count on to help you move forward in life change?
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