Ben: Rarely, Interested?
How to Loose a Guy in 10 Days. Itâ€™s the 2003 movie about Andie and her Bennie boo booâ€¦ boo boo boo. And is full of quick-witted humor. Romantic Comedy. If your man doesnâ€™t like them just hope that they put Kate Hudson or Sandra Bullock in the movie. Heâ€™ll go. Heâ€™ll act like itâ€™s torture. Itâ€™s not. Heâ€™ll want to negotiate for more time in The Man Cave. Donâ€™t buy his tomfoolery.
This is â€œNutter Butterâ€™sâ€ favorite movie. She can rattle off the tag lines better than Wikipedia. I think she digs Matthew McConaughey. Just a wee bit. Sheâ€™s a Burberry girl and great friend!! Iâ€™m digressingâ€¦
The movie is about vanity, love and forgiveness.
First, vanityâ€¦ Andie and Ben were both on top of their game.
A game? Like Backgammon? I love backgammon!! No, not that kind of game… these two play a different sort of game.
Thatâ€™s the story lineâ€¦ itâ€™s all just a game. For Andie, make a guy fall for her, and then loose him, by doing all the things that men dislike, all within 10 days. Then write an article about it for her job. Benâ€™s game was even more simple, a cocky bet that he could make any woman fall in love with him. Andie was chosen as the attractive subject in a bar.
I had some dreams they were clouds in my coffeeâ€¦ Youâ€™re so vainâ€¦ You probably think this blog is about youâ€¦ from Youâ€™re So Vain, the catchy Carly Simon song that rings loud through this movie. I had no clue what â€œclouds in my coffeeâ€ meant. Carly says: â€œClouds in my coffee” are the confusing aspects of life and love. That which you can’t see through, and yet seems alluring…until. Like a mirage that turns into a dry patch.â€
Vanity. One of those harmful virtues, an example of pride, which is considered the opposite of being humble. Vanity, arrogance and pride can lead to a hardening of the heart that condemns those who refuse to accept anything greater than themselves.
When Andie and Ben found out about each otherâ€™s game, they were deeply hurt. Owie!! The movie easily could have ended right there. Game over.
Instead of vanity, letâ€™s focus on the good, the positive, and the things this blog is about: â€œThink, at all times, on things that are true, noble, right, pure, lovely and admirable, excellent and praiseworthy.â€ Philippians 4:8. Amen.
Back to the movie. Fortunately, something else happened along the way: Andie and Ben fell in love. Ok, for the sake of the Romantic Comedy, can I add more God here? Iâ€™m sure this next part could conceivably happen without Godâ€¦ in the movies.
Hereâ€™s the best part of the movie: Love endures and overrides vanity. Team God winsâ€¦ again!
Love overrides vanity is not a given, no-brainer, or slam dunk. Now comes the tricky partâ€¦ forgiveness. A crazy scramble near the end of the movie. Andie and Ben swallow their pride, not an easy thing to doâ€¦ but necessary for their forgiveness. And for their love to endure.
And for the fairy tale endingâ€¦
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Very interesting posts and well written.
I will put your site on my blogroll.
Thank you Rick, I’ll be sure to check your blog out as well !!
Great job! Movies like this keep the fairy tale alive! I truly believe that God has someone special for everyone. Maybe some of us just have more “clouds in our coffee” than others along our journey.
Me too NB !! Just remember that if you find clouds in your coffee not to attempt another solo cruise. Hey, do you still have that shoe I gave you?
The one that comes with a prince?
yea, that’s the one. I’m guessing it must have suffered a similar fate as my cherished monkey… ordered to the landfill. poor monkey, i miss him!!
Nope! I still have the shoe and a bigger one, lol! Too big, too small…just need just right???? Speaking of…still have Petey?
LOL… ok then… Petey’s good!!
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