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		<title>The Forgiveness Prayer</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Aug 2010 14:53:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I few weeks ago I wrote â€œHaving A Heart,â€ inspired after reading Andy Andrews â€œThe Heart Mender.â€ The jist of it was to try and provide help forgiving someone after they have hurt you. Remember, forgiving is for YOU and doesnâ€™t have anything to do with the person who offended you (unless you would like [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://chrisvonada.com/the-forgiveness-prayer/">The Forgiveness Prayer</a> first appeared on <a href="https://chrisvonada.com">I'm Just Thinkin'</a>.</p>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.chrisvonada.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Having-a-Heart-Like-The-Father1.jpg"><img decoding="async" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-408" title="Having-a-Heart-Like-The-Father" alt="" src="http://www.chrisvonada.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Having-a-Heart-Like-The-Father1-300x297.jpg" width="300" height="297" /></a>I few weeks ago I wrote â€œ<a href="http://www.chrisvonada.com/?p=291" target="_blank">Having A Heart</a>,â€ inspired after reading Andy Andrews â€œThe Heart Mender.â€ The jist of it was to try and provide help forgiving someone after they have hurt you. Remember, forgiving is for YOU and doesnâ€™t have anything to do with the person who offended you (unless you would like to restore a broken relationship, then by all means ask for forgiveness!). It is through the power of Godâ€™s loving acceptance for us that we can have the peace of true forgiveness. At the time I wrote â€œHaving A Heartâ€ I couldnâ€™t put my hands on The Forgiveness Prayer. I originally found it in the sidebar of the Transformations handout for LifeGroups at Chets Creek Church last fall (when I really needed it, I repeated it over 100 times, and for months.) After following up with Glenn (I love that dude!!) Reese at Chets this week I was able to come up with the following prayer on the internet, which is very similar to the missing forgiveness prayerâ€¦</p>
<p><strong>Father God, I choose, as an act of my will, to forgive ____________(name) for _______(specific offense). Father, I ask that you forgive them as well, and not hold these charges against him/her on my account. Father God, if there are any more stored up negative feelings in me toward _________, I ask that you cleanse me. I will be open to replace these negative emotions with the fruit of your Holy Spirit. Father, Your Holy Word tells us that we overcome Satan by the blood of the Lamb, Jesus Christ, and the word of our testimony. I now plead the blood of Jesus over this offense and over my unforgiveness. Lord, do not allow Satan to interfere with my testimony. Heavenly Father, I ask that you help me regain the ground that I gave up when I held onto these offenses.Â I ask that you take back this ground and no longer allow Satan to operate there. Give me wisdom to deal with this situation in the future. Father, I ask that you heal now the wounded places in my soul.Â  Heal my memory of those offenses so that I can look back on them realistically, knowing that You have healed me.Â Now Father, I ask that you bless ____(name) with Your abundant mercy. Prosper him/her in every way: body, soul, and spirit. AMEN.</strong></p>
<p>Again from Andy Andrewsâ€™ bookâ€¦</p>
<blockquote><p>â€œIf youâ€™re mad at someone you have to forgive them for you. You have a choice to make, either think about them all day long and let them keep hurting you insideâ€¦ or give them to God. We are products of our past but we donâ€™t have to be prisoners to it. Practicing forgiveness is less an act than a determined way of living. True forgiveness only comes at the conclusion of an inner struggle.â€</p></blockquote>
<p>Keep on Smiling, Loving and Living 🙂</p><p>The post <a href="https://chrisvonada.com/the-forgiveness-prayer/">The Forgiveness Prayer</a> first appeared on <a href="https://chrisvonada.com">I'm Just Thinkin'</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 17:11:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Just blazed through Andy Andrewsâ€™ new book, The Heart Mender. In less than a day during my spare time. Iâ€™ve never been one to do this, but this one is truly a masterpiece that I couldnâ€™t put down. The subtitle, a story of second chances, shines the light on this true story of war, faithâ€¦ [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://chrisvonada.com/having-a-heart/">Having a Heart</a> first appeared on <a href="https://chrisvonada.com">I'm Just Thinkin'</a>.</p>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.andyandrews.com/theheartmender/"><img decoding="async" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-292" title="The Heart Mender" src="http://www.chrisvonada.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/The-Heart-Mender-192x300.jpg" alt="" width="192" height="300" /></a>Just blazed through Andy Andrewsâ€™ new book, The Heart Mender. In less than a day during my spare time. Iâ€™ve never been one to do this, but this one is truly a masterpiece that I couldnâ€™t put down.</p>
<p>The subtitle, a story of second chances, shines the light on this true story of war, faithâ€¦ and forgiveness. Hereâ€™s the jist of itâ€¦ Andy uncovers artifacts from the second world war in his own back yard, along the coast of Southern Alabama. Through some research, heâ€™s able to piece together an incredible story of two people reconciling their pasts and hatred to move forward with their lives. I canâ€™t really say much more without spoiling this tale.</p>
<p>From the bookâ€¦</p>
<p>â€œIf youâ€™re mad at someone you have to forgive them for you. You have a choice to make, either think about them all day long and let them keep hurting you insideâ€¦ or give them to God. We are products of our past but we donâ€™t have to be prisoners to it. Practicing forgiveness is less an act than a determined way of living. True forgiveness only comes at the conclusion of an inner struggle.â€</p>
<p>I found a forgiveness prayer not too long ago,Â and have experienced that forgiving someone that has really hurt you badly takes time. A lot of prayer (I&#8217;ve prayed my forgiveness prayer over 100 times!!!). And a whole lot of Godâ€™s love. And this alone frees the human spirit.</p>
<p>Thank you Andy once again for sharing this amazing story. I canâ€™t wait for the next!!!</p><p>The post <a href="https://chrisvonada.com/having-a-heart/">Having a Heart</a> first appeared on <a href="https://chrisvonada.com">I'm Just Thinkin'</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
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		<title>Sometimes All a Person Needs is a Little Perspective</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Apr 2010 15:11:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>The Noticer is Andy Andrews book centered on the journey of a man named Jones (no Mrâ€¦ just Jones) who shares wisdom on how proper perspective can get you through lifeâ€™s challenges. This story takes place over the period of decades, and Jones, the sage-of-a-guy, always appears the same. â€œA unique soul with angelic-like qualities,â€ [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://chrisvonada.com/sometimes-all-a-person-needs-is-a-little-perspective/">Sometimes All a Person Needs is a Little Perspective</a> first appeared on <a href="https://chrisvonada.com">I'm Just Thinkin'</a>.</p>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a title="The Noticer" href="http://www.andyandrews.com/store/books/product/the-noticer/" target="_blank">The Noticer</a> is Andy Andrews book centered on the journey of a man named Jones (no Mrâ€¦ just Jones) who shares wisdom on how proper perspective can get you through lifeâ€™s challenges.<a href="http://www.chrisvonada.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/The-Noticer.jpg"><img decoding="async" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-206" title="The Noticer" src="http://www.chrisvonada.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/The-Noticer.jpg" alt="" width="344" height="266" /></a></p>
<p>This story takes place over the period of decades, and Jones, the sage-of-a-guy, always appears the same. â€œA unique soul with angelic-like qualities,â€ no one is quite sure of Jonesâ€™ age or race. Shrouded in mystery, he casually bops in and out of the small town of Orange Beach, Alabama.</p>
<p>Jones has the gift of noticing things that other people miss, touching their lives by giving them a new perspectiveâ€¦ starting with Andy himself. Andy was homeless, living under a pier, at the time Jones entered his life. Jones hands Andy a series of books to read, disappearing and then reappearing to continue to educate Andy and before you know it Andy is on his feet and shining brightly.</p>
<p>An amazing inspirational story, Jones touches the lives of a struggling married couple, teenagers, businesspeople facing bankruptcy, and many other people struggling through the obstacles of life. Jones teaches that no matter how bad things look, itâ€™s all in how you look at things that helps to keep lifeâ€™s many challenges in perspective.</p>
<p>Andyâ€™s next masterpiece is <a title="The Heart Mender" href="http://www.andyandrews.com/theheartmender/" target="_blank">The Heart Mender</a>, scheduled to be out next week. This is a very powerful story of second chances and forgiveness that I believe will be his best work yet. Be sure to check this one out!</p><p>The post <a href="https://chrisvonada.com/sometimes-all-a-person-needs-is-a-little-perspective/">Sometimes All a Person Needs is a Little Perspective</a> first appeared on <a href="https://chrisvonada.com">I'm Just Thinkin'</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
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